Create Your Perfect First Dance Moment By Choosing the Perfect Wedding Song


Your first dance as a married couple is one of the most surreal and memorable moments in life. As you take each other’s hands, all eyes on you as family and friends look on with joy and love, nothing matters more than this beautiful moment between just the two of you. The song that plays can set the tone for your entire wedding celebration—just like any soundtrack for a movie or life event, this musical accompaniment will be stuck in many people’s minds for years to come! From sweetly sentimental ballads to up-tempo swing tunes, choosing the perfect wedding song that speaks to both of your unique personalities adds an extra touch of personalization and specialness. Here are some tips to help create your ideal first dance moment so you can walk away remembering it forever!

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Start with brainstorming – think of what kind of music you both like, the type of atmosphere you want to create and the mood you want to set

Planning a music playlist can be a fun and exciting experience, especially if you’re planning it with someone else. To create a playlist that suits both you and your friend’s taste, start with brainstorming. Consider what type of music you both enjoy, the ambiance you want to create, and the vibe you want to set. It’s essential to keep your focus on the atmosphere you want to create, whether it’s for a party, a road trip, or a romantic date. Once you’ve got your ideas sorted out, it’s time to start exploring different genres and tracks to build a playlist that resonates with both of you. Remember to keep it friendly, informative, and professional, and most importantly, have fun creating the perfect playlist together.

Go for a classic standard – these songs have stood the test of time and are sure to please family members

When it comes to selecting music for a family gathering, going for a classic standard is always a smart choice. These timeless songs have stood the test of time and are guaranteed to please family members of all ages. From Frank Sinatra to Elvis Presley, the classics remain popular because they evoke a sense of nostalgia and familiarity. So why not put on your dancing shoes and swing to the smooth melodies of “Fly Me to the Moon” or “Can’t Help Falling in Love”? Choosing the right music can set the tone for a memorable family gathering that everyone will cherish for years to come.

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Consider playing a song that has special meaning to your relationship

There’s no doubt about it, music can bring back powerful memories and evoke strong emotions. And when it comes to relationships, playing a song that has special meaning can deepen your bond and strengthen your connection. Perhaps it was the song that was playing the first time you met, or maybe it’s a tune that you listened to on repeat during a romantic vacation. Whatever the reason, taking the time to play that song for your partner can be a beautiful and meaningful gesture. So light some candles, pour a glass of wine, and let the music speak for itself.

Choose something upbeat – you don’t want your guests to fall asleep during the dance

When it comes to planning a party, the last thing you want is for your guests to be bored or fall asleep during the dance. So, it’s important to choose something upbeat and fun to keep everyone on their feet! Whether it’s the latest pop hits or classic disco tunes, make sure to choose music that will get your guests moving and energized. Don’t be afraid to mix it up with different genres and styles to keep things interesting. And if you’re not sure where to start, consider hiring a professional DJ or asking for recommendations from friends and family. With the right music, you can ensure a memorable and lively party that your guests will be talking about for years to come!

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Put together a list of 3-5 potential songs and share it with your friends and family

When it comes to putting together a list of potential songs to share with your loved ones, there are plenty of options to choose from. Whether you’re in the mood for upbeat pop songs or heart-wrenching ballads, the choices are truly endless. A great starting point could be some of the latest chart-toppers, such as “Levitating” by Dua Lipa or “Good Days” by SZA. Or, if you’re feeling nostalgic, why not add some throwback tunes to the mix? “I Will Always Love You” by Whitney Houston or “Don’t Stop Believin'” by Journey are classic hits that are sure to get everyone singing along. And don’t forget about some hidden gems that may not be as well-known, like “Coffee” by Sylvan Esso or “Finesse” by Bruno Mars. No matter what you choose, putting together a list of potential songs is a fun way to bond with your friends and family over your shared love of music.

Think about what kind of message the song conveys – pick something romantic or meaningful to you

Music has the power to convey a message in a way that nothing else can. When it comes to choosing a romantic or meaningful song, it’s important to pay attention to the emotions it elicits. Whether it’s the lyrics or the melody, the song you choose should make you feel something special. Maybe it brings back a memory or reminds you of someone you love. Whatever it is that draws you to the song, embrace it and let it fill you with warmth and joy. Remember, music is a universal language that can speak to people from all walks of life. So choose a song that speaks to you and let it amplify the love and meaning in your life.

Don’t forget about the duration of your chosen song – aim for something that will last around three minutes

When selecting a song to showcase your musical talents, it’s important to consider the duration. Shoot for a song that’s around three minutes in length to keep your audience engaged and entertained. Don’t forget that the attention span of listeners can wane quickly, so it’s best to keep things concise and focused. With a targeted duration in mind, you’ll be able to better plan out your performance and ensure that it hits all the right notes. So take the time to carefully select a song that fits the bill, and get ready to wow your audience with your talent and skill.

Don’t be afraid to mix it up – if neither one of you likes slow dancing, try out a faster tempo tune

If you and your partner aren’t fans of slow dancing, don’t be afraid to shake things up and try out some tunes with a faster tempo. There are so many great songs out there that don’t require a slow and steady sway. Maybe you’ll find that you both really vibe with a lively salsa track, or maybe you’ll discover a shared love for upbeat swing music. Whatever your tastes, branching out and experimenting with new dance styles can be a fun and exciting way to connect with your partner and get moving together. So next time you’re out on the dance floor, give a faster paced tune a chance and see where the rhythm takes you!

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If all else fails, go with a tried-and-true favorite!

The top 20 songs that you could pick for your first wedding dance song are all beautiful, romantic, and timeless. They are sure to make your first dance a truly special moment. Of course, this is just a small sampling of the many great first dance songs out there. Ultimately, the most important thing is to choose a song that you and your partner love and that will make your first dance a truly special moment.

  1. Can’t Help Falling in Love – Elvis Presley
  2. All of Me – John Legend
  3. A Thousand Years – Christina Perri
  4. Your Song – Elton John
  5. I Will Always Love You – Whitney Houston
  6. Thinking Out Loud – Ed Sheeran
  7. Marry You – Bruno Mars
  8. Perfect – Ed Sheeran
  9. All I Ask – Adele
  10. How Long Will I Love You – Ellie Goulding
  11. At Last – Etta James
  12. Marry Me – Train
  13. Wonderful Tonight – Eric Clapton
  14. What a Wonderful World – Louis Armstrong
  15. Crazy Love – Van Morrison
  16. I’m Yours – Jason Mraz
  17. Kiss Me – Ed Sheeran
  18. Unchained Melody – The Righteous Brothers
  19. The Way You Look Tonight – Frank Sinatra
  20. I Don’t Want to Miss a Thing – Aerosmith

It’s okay to pick a song that might not be unique. In fact, many couples choose popular first dance songs because they are well-known and loved by many people. This can create a sense of community and connection at your wedding. Additionally, popular first dance songs are often easier to find instrumental versions of, which can be helpful if you are having a live band or DJ at your wedding.

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Congratulations, you have now come to the end of planning your special first dance for your wedding day! As mentioned, this is something that may take some time to plan, but it certainly should not be overlooked. It can be helpful to get a second opinion on potential songs so don’t forget to discuss your picks with lucky family members and friends.

If you’re still having trouble choosing the perfect tune or want more suggestions make sure to book a consultation with an Avanté Banquets wedding planner. We’ve worked many weddings before so we will know exactly how to set the romantic mood by putting together a musical selection that captures both of your personalities. Remember: next time you go out on the dance floor you can relive this moment together!